Who do I need to be? Whatever the moment requires you to be. You are an ever expanding expression. One idea of self one moment is to be evolved the next.
We will be in the moment what we need to be so we can experience the fullest possibility of reality. When you stop insisting life should be, and be with what life is, then we’ve come home to being. Because your being is not seperate from reality.
There is nothing worse than peoples ideas of us. But as worse, our ideas of others, which we project based on how and who I am being, creates a seperate on between self and the idea of the other. Love transcends the idea and allows space. What ideas of others are you tired of carrying?
Self doubt is only doubt about the idea of who you are. It’s to remind you that you are operating as an idea, and inviting you back to being. In which, there is no doubt in the moment.
Loneliness is spending time with the idea about yourself, rather spending time with your self — Matt Kahn.
Sobriety is getting over the ideas you had about yourself. Being sober is being cool with being with yourself, instead of the ideas. Trillion dollar industries built on the ideas people have about themself.
The fragmentation of ego is when one idea of self is arguing against another idea of self. The love of self is when different parts of self get heard and align into one.