- What area in your life is not working? Relationship. Dewhurst.
- What are you doing, having and being here? Doing: moving on, see him on occasion, justifying my dissatisfaction Having: tension, drama, obligation, eggshells Being: Exhausted, fed up, disininterested
- What are you not doing, having or being that is missing? Not Doing: Communicating boundaries, calling him out Not Having: Tefflon, unshakeability, composure Not Being: Unconditional, Ruthless
- What possibility would love to experience instead? Gracious, Something God still wants me to learn. Great. Close your eyes. Feel into your body. Let things go quite.
- Go a moment or place where this possibility is alive and real. Where are we? Paint the picture. Tell me everything and everyone you hear, smell, feel and see. Lightness. In conversation. His presence or name no longer irritates me. All I have is thanks. The sourness has left my tongue like it has done with the grace of God many times before. I am free to let him be and love myself in the process.
- Great. What event or incident would need to happen to make this moment real? We are in each other’s presence. He is no longer the devil and no I longer keep creating him as such. All that is there is love, and all that is there respect. Being around him is a joy, because who I am is connected to grace.
- Awesome. What action do you take the moments following the possibility coming true? I make him big and great, and great and big he comes. He was my creation all along. I thank him for being himself, and in that moment I am free to be me.