”More people stay poor because of their egos than get rich off them.”—Alex Hormosi
Phase 1: Activation
Constantly finding myself in debates and arguments with people over philosophical and social issues. Where speaking over each other and pushing another’s buttons becomes the prerogative instead of listening for problems, solutions and a way to make a difference in people’s lives. Ultimately, there seems to be a limitation to the value being received and given in the average conversation I find myself in. It’s also that so much of the value to be given feels linked to the very thing I do for a living and I do not want the thing to drown out relationships by pitching people shit constantly. I’ve opted for being provocative and casual as a safer route than candid and direct in solving people’s problems with the self-promotion of my own service.
Phase 2: Identification
Self-Identity:
Cautious Promoter
Overt Provocateur
Others-Identity:
Help Rejectors
Lost Dummies
Phase 3: Declaration
Feelings:
Disturbed
Volatile
Non-Feelings:
Satisfied
Grounded
Valuable
Results:
Shouting matches
Draining debates
Fixed positions
Non-Results:
Breakthrough conversations
Groundbreaking
Actions:
Debating worldviews
Questioning other’s character
Looking to invalidate
Non-Actions:
Helping people directly
Showing value instead of telling
Giving my gift freely
Being:
Combative
Cautious
Reserved
Covert
Non-Beings:
Open to surprise
Directness
Straight
Phase 4: Creation
New Possibility:
Directness
New Identity:
Straight Arrow